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Can a person with low self esteem give great advice?

Posted by admin on Dec 28, 2009 under Self Help

Can you be open minded, intelligent and love to help people out yet still have low self esteem? Or are those two not linked at all?

In my mind, they are not linked at all. In fact, I know a lot of people with low self esteem who give excellent advice.

I think it has something to do with the whole "taking your own advice" notion. A lot of people with low self esteem have an easy time building other people up… but they just can’t do it to themselves.

And of course, low self esteem has nothing to do with being open minded, intelligent, or loving either.

help my computer keeps turning off its self helpp?

Posted by admin on Dec 26, 2009 under Self Help

it always says something aborted i get so mad i scanned it but nothing happens it keeps tuning off by itself what should i do?

The problem is most likely your power supply. You can get replacement power supplies at newegg for good prices.

When someone emails you asking for help because they are addicted to self harming, do you think they are only?

Posted by admin on Dec 22, 2009 under Self Help

wanting attention? why else would they email a complete stranger?

Rida,thank you for asking this question for it has a serious side.
I have suffered severe mental disorders for many years now,and
the first person I could tell was a complete stranger.Communication
of problems to the family are often extremely hard,non existant, or
the family goes into denial and refuses to believe there is a problem.
Over the years I have been asked for advice and help,and it has been
on only a few occassions that they have been attention seeking.I would
advise that if you receive such emails in the future forward that email
with a short note explaining the circumstances,immediately to the 24
hour mental health emergency line (call them first N.S.W.1800 677114),
you never know that the life you save might someday be your own.

How long did it take for you to get your healthy living grant x?

Posted by admin on Dec 19, 2009 under Healthy Living

I sent off for my healthy living grant about 3 and a half weeks ago and still havent recived anything. Im sure I filled in the form in correctly. How long did it take everyone else? Thank you :) x

Ditto. Apparently we’re supposed to receive a letter telling us they’re sorting it out, but a lot of women I’ve spoken to say this actually arrives after their grant has been paid! Someone else I know said hers took 8 weeks.

Mine might be a health in newborn babyhood grant instead….

Can I use self rising flour in a cookie recipe that also calls for baking soda?

Posted by admin on Dec 19, 2009 under Self Help

I know that to use self rising flour instead of all purpose you’re supposed to leave out the salt and baking powder, but my oatmeal cookie recipe only calls for salt and baking soda. So what should I do?

if you use self rising flour just dont put salt or baking soda in the recipie. It is already in the self rising flour!

what is the required degree to be a professional writer in the personal development field ?

Posted by admin on Dec 17, 2009 under Personal Development

I want to be a professional writer in the personal development field like jack Canfield and Antony Robbins.
I believe that people will not trust me if I am not holding a certificate or a degree which will make me qualified for writing in the subject .
what is the required degree to be a professional writer in the personal development field ?

Professional writers often hold degrees in language(English) or communications or journalism. For your specific field, you might consider a degree in psychology as well.

What are some natural remedies without medicatons for sleeping at night?

Posted by admin on Dec 17, 2009 under Natural Remedies

I’m prescribed lunesta, but i don’t take it because it leaves a terrible taste in my mouth all day the next day. What are some better ways to help me sleep at night? I usually just end up staying up for 2 or three nights straight and then i sleep really good that next night. but i wish i could actually sleep good every night. I hate taking medicine though. so anybody know any natural remedies. I do drink coffee but only in the morning. You don’t think i should give up coffee do you?

I tried lunesta too. It did not work very well as a sleep aid, and I agree about the terrible taste. Many people should not drink coffee after 3 PM. It’s unlikely you should give up your morning coffee unless you are hypersensitive to caffeine.

Below is a long list I once wrote about ways to fall asleep. The list is so long that reading it might put you to sleep :-) This list is the one that Tony I copied and pasted from me without my permission.

If nothing below works, email me and I can give you some suggestions about over the counter and prescription meds, if necessary. However, the natural remedies below are safer and free of side effects.

What helped me a lot to fall asleep, especially when my mind was racing, was to lie in bed and listen to relaxation CDs, especially those that contain someone speaking with relaxing music in the background. The combination of voice and music is very soothing. Many of these CDs are available on eBay for very low prices.

A warm bath is a great way to help you to sleep (depending on the season). If you can’t take a bath, you can give yourself a foot massage with slightly warm massage oil, sesame oil, or castor oil from a health food store.

A helpful technique is to relax your body one part at a time. So you could relax your feet, your lower legs, upper legs, moving up from your lower belly up to your chest, etc., until your whole body is relaxed.

Of course, guided relaxation methods can help. As vividly as possible, imagine yourself at the beach, in the mountains or country, or whatever is most soothing to you.

If you have annoying thoughts that run through your mind when you are trying to sleep, you might have to talk to a counselor or therapist about that. I suggest avoiding prescription sleeping pills unless nothing else helps.

There are herbs that might help you to sleep, eg, valerian root, kava kava, chamomile, hops, passion flower, skullcap. Probably, valerian root and kava kava are the best. However, what most people don’t realize is that it can take at least a few weeks for some herbs to build up in your system before they start to work.

The minerals calcium and magnesium might be helpful for sleep. You can also try 5-HTP or melatonin. I would not take melatonin for over a month unless your doctor says it is ok.

Song from 50 cents movie ‘Before I Self Destruct’, I can’t find it. HELP ME PLEASE?

Posted by admin on Dec 17, 2009 under Self Help

I was watching the movie Before I Self Destruct starring 50 cent. There is this song when he is in the car with this guy and 50 cent is wearing his basketball stuff.. The driver played this song as they were driving.. HELP ME PLEASE!

Burn ‘em Up

What are the Self-Concept Factors & how do they effect personal development?

Posted by admin on Dec 14, 2009 under Personal Development

What are the self-concept factors? And how does each of these factors effect a person’s personal development positively and negatively?

Only you can answer that for yourself !

reiki and holistic healing centre in kolkata?

Posted by admin on Dec 11, 2009 under Holistic Healing

reiki and holistic healing centre in kolkata which offer reiki healers at healing centre for patients comming to this centre to take heal at this centre by healer working in this centre for various health problem such as eye related.please tell me name,address, contact number and website address if any of this reiki healing center in kolkata.

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Location-Kolkata-700054
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Location-Kolkata-700034
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ELITE HEALTH SPA 2 reviews
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Institute Of Alternative Medicines & Research Be First to Rate
Location-Kolkata-700063
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REIKI KENDRA 2 reviews
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