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		<title>Comment on i need help I&#8217;m giving up on my self :(? by Genork Snuckleberry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Genork Snuckleberry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 04:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what chya could do... 
no yahoo answers i did not spell anything wrong
*mutters*
anyways... as i was saying, you could try a diffrent approach, when your mind tells you something is going to go wrong, tell it to shut up, and that any mistake you make now, you can fix later.
Such as if you go into a career of awefulness, I don't have to explain, but there are ways out.
Don't take too much responsibility fer your future... let your future self dig you out... 
but still be responsible!!!!!!! &#62;: (
make a decision, (a good one) and when you begin to fear for your future... look back on my brilliant advice!!!!! :D
Oops! it looks like I have 4 misspellings mah toe!!!!! &#62;.&#62;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;The old Noggin Of Course
xDDD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what chya could do&#8230;<br />
no yahoo answers i did not spell anything wrong<br />
*mutters*<br />
anyways&#8230; as i was saying, you could try a diffrent approach, when your mind tells you something is going to go wrong, tell it to shut up, and that any mistake you make now, you can fix later.<br />
Such as if you go into a career of awefulness, I don&#8217;t have to explain, but there are ways out.<br />
Don&#8217;t take too much responsibility fer your future&#8230; let your future self dig you out&#8230;<br />
but still be responsible!!!!!!! &gt;: (<br />
make a decision, (a good one) and when you begin to fear for your future&#8230; look back on my brilliant advice!!!!! <img src='http://www.allselfimprovementonline.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Oops! it looks like I have 4 misspellings mah toe!!!!! &gt;.&gt;<br /><b>References : </b><br />The old Noggin Of Course<br />
xDDD</p>
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		<title>Comment on i need help I&#8217;m giving up on my self :(? by ♫Akaoi♪</title>
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		<dc:creator>♫Akaoi♪</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 04:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The first thing you have to do is stop. Stop thinking that about yourself. You've just got to push yourself to really try, and REALLY be commited. I know it'll be hard, I know it'll be scary, and it might be painful to face all this. But pain never lasts forever. It might last a minute, it might last a year, but it never lasts forever. And remind yourself that.
Going back to school would be a great start. Go back, and finish. You CAN do it and be successful if you try. If not, you run the risk of facing horrible situations in your life.
And never feel alone, or that no one cares. There will always be SOMEONE to help you. If no one else, there's God. And hey, if no one cared about you, I wouldn't have answered this question. Even a perfect stranger cares.
Don't give up on yourself or the world, never lose hope, because nothing is impossible if you try.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first thing you have to do is stop. Stop thinking that about yourself. You&#8217;ve just got to push yourself to really try, and REALLY be commited. I know it&#8217;ll be hard, I know it&#8217;ll be scary, and it might be painful to face all this. But pain never lasts forever. It might last a minute, it might last a year, but it never lasts forever. And remind yourself that.<br />
Going back to school would be a great start. Go back, and finish. You CAN do it and be successful if you try. If not, you run the risk of facing horrible situations in your life.<br />
And never feel alone, or that no one cares. There will always be SOMEONE to help you. If no one else, there&#8217;s God. And hey, if no one cared about you, I wouldn&#8217;t have answered this question. Even a perfect stranger cares.<br />
Don&#8217;t give up on yourself or the world, never lose hope, because nothing is impossible if you try.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on i need help I&#8217;m giving up on my self :(? by Del Sol Racer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Del Sol Racer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 03:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this one is easy. you are some what lazy and low self confidence. like me... 

first do some simple activities like a simple puzzle. then work your way up. just focus on what you are doing. don't give up, if its too hard take a break but finish it. its gonna take a while but you'll get though it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this one is easy. you are some what lazy and low self confidence. like me&#8230; </p>
<p>first do some simple activities like a simple puzzle. then work your way up. just focus on what you are doing. don&#8217;t give up, if its too hard take a break but finish it. its gonna take a while but you&#8217;ll get though it.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on i need help I&#8217;m giving up on my self :(? by Aw Chipokshi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aw Chipokshi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 03:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's an excuse that you keep repeating to avoid your responsibilities. Hold yourself to doing things that you don't feel like doing. Making up this title based on prior failures doesn't have anything to do with your ability to actually complete things.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s an excuse that you keep repeating to avoid your responsibilities. Hold yourself to doing things that you don&#8217;t feel like doing. Making up this title based on prior failures doesn&#8217;t have anything to do with your ability to actually complete things.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on i need help I&#8217;m giving up on my self :(? by rtmeeks7</title>
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		<dc:creator>rtmeeks7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 02:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Never give up.  Somethings in life are not always for our specific requirements, but if we motivate ourselves in completing goals, objectives, etc...., then anything is possible.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never give up.  Somethings in life are not always for our specific requirements, but if we motivate ourselves in completing goals, objectives, etc&#8230;., then anything is possible.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Help books for teen girl/young adult? by SabineM</title>
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		<dc:creator>SabineM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 04:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Instead of books, why not try reading Self Help Articles online. Check this link below..&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Self-help from http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/. Psychology and self help since 1994.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Instead of books, why not try reading Self Help Articles online. Check this link below..<br /><b>References : </b><br />Self-help from <a href="http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/</a>. Psychology and self help since 1994.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Help books for teen girl/young adult? by Pendragon Tim Chng</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pendragon Tim Chng</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 04:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like it when you say you don't like these Chicken soup books. 

If you want to achieve something with your life, it's better to forget about your age and go for the real stuff. That's my view. Sooner or later, you're going to need them. Why not get a head start over your peers, if you mean business.

To become health, wealthy and wise, you need to take care of the four aspects of life: Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Contribution to society. 

So, I'm going to forget your age and recommend a few appropriate books from my 2,000 personal library, and you take your pick from them, OK?

Reader's Digest, The Complete Manual of Fitness and Well-being, a lifetime guide to self-improvement. workouts for men and women, eating for health, self-scoring fitness quizzes, dealing with stress, looking your best, sexuality, feeling good, staying young, treatments and therapies.

Now, Discover Your Strengths, the revolutionary program that shows you how to develop your unique talents and strengths - and those of the people you manage, by Marcus Buckingham &#38; Donald Clifton

The Magic of Dialogue, transforming conflict into cooperation, by Daniel Yankelovitch, based on the open minded attitude that everyone brings a piece of the solution to problems.

Rich Dad Poor Dad, what the rich teach their kids about money - that the poor and middle class do not, by Robert Kiyosaki, choosing idea-intensive and capital intensive activities over labor-intensive activities.

Make Real Money On The Internet, by Stephen Pierce

Dream Crafting, the art of dreaming big, the science of making it happen, by Paul Levesque and Art McNeil, five skills for achieving any goal

The Power of Full Engagement, managing Energy, not time, is the key to high performance and personal renewal, by Jim Loehr &#38; Tony Schwartz, achieving corporate success.

The Road Less Traveled, a new psychology of love, traditional values and spiritual growth, by Scott Peck, how to build up character and courage through facing our emotional problems squarely

The 7 habits of Highly Effective People, bringing back character ethics, by Stephen Covey, be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think win/win, seek first to understand...then to be understood, synergize, sharpen the saw.

People Skills, how to assert yourself, listen to others, and resolve conflicts, by Robert Bolton, 

Make The Right Decision Every Time, how to make the right business and personal decisions confidently, by Roger Dawson&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like it when you say you don&#8217;t like these Chicken soup books. </p>
<p>If you want to achieve something with your life, it&#8217;s better to forget about your age and go for the real stuff. That&#8217;s my view. Sooner or later, you&#8217;re going to need them. Why not get a head start over your peers, if you mean business.</p>
<p>To become health, wealthy and wise, you need to take care of the four aspects of life: Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Contribution to society. </p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m going to forget your age and recommend a few appropriate books from my 2,000 personal library, and you take your pick from them, OK?</p>
<p>Reader&#8217;s Digest, The Complete Manual of Fitness and Well-being, a lifetime guide to self-improvement. workouts for men and women, eating for health, self-scoring fitness quizzes, dealing with stress, looking your best, sexuality, feeling good, staying young, treatments and therapies.</p>
<p>Now, Discover Your Strengths, the revolutionary program that shows you how to develop your unique talents and strengths - and those of the people you manage, by Marcus Buckingham &amp; Donald Clifton</p>
<p>The Magic of Dialogue, transforming conflict into cooperation, by Daniel Yankelovitch, based on the open minded attitude that everyone brings a piece of the solution to problems.</p>
<p>Rich Dad Poor Dad, what the rich teach their kids about money - that the poor and middle class do not, by Robert Kiyosaki, choosing idea-intensive and capital intensive activities over labor-intensive activities.</p>
<p>Make Real Money On The Internet, by Stephen Pierce</p>
<p>Dream Crafting, the art of dreaming big, the science of making it happen, by Paul Levesque and Art McNeil, five skills for achieving any goal</p>
<p>The Power of Full Engagement, managing Energy, not time, is the key to high performance and personal renewal, by Jim Loehr &amp; Tony Schwartz, achieving corporate success.</p>
<p>The Road Less Traveled, a new psychology of love, traditional values and spiritual growth, by Scott Peck, how to build up character and courage through facing our emotional problems squarely</p>
<p>The 7 habits of Highly Effective People, bringing back character ethics, by Stephen Covey, be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think win/win, seek first to understand&#8230;then to be understood, synergize, sharpen the saw.</p>
<p>People Skills, how to assert yourself, listen to others, and resolve conflicts, by Robert Bolton, </p>
<p>Make The Right Decision Every Time, how to make the right business and personal decisions confidently, by Roger Dawson<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Help books for teen girl/young adult? by Eldridge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eldridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 03:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Survival Secrets of College Students - Mary Kay Shanley &#38; Julia Johnston

Teens Talk about what hurts and what helps: Surviving Divorce - Trudi Strain Trueit
Facts and statistics about divorce, with personal advice from teens whose families have been affected.

The teen girl's gotta-have-it guide to embarrassing moments: How to survive life's cringe-worthy situations! 
by: Jessica Blatt&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Survival Secrets of College Students - Mary Kay Shanley &amp; Julia Johnston</p>
<p>Teens Talk about what hurts and what helps: Surviving Divorce - Trudi Strain Trueit<br />
Facts and statistics about divorce, with personal advice from teens whose families have been affected.</p>
<p>The teen girl&#8217;s gotta-have-it guide to embarrassing moments: How to survive life&#8217;s cringe-worthy situations!<br />
by: Jessica Blatt<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Help books for teen girl/young adult? by nicoleeee :3</title>
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		<dc:creator>nicoleeee :3</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 02:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>chickensoup for the __________.

Lol idk, my mom buys those for me. It's realistic bc they happened in real life...but I can't say they're not cheesy. It's a collection of shorts, though, and it helps.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>chickensoup for the __________.</p>
<p>Lol idk, my mom buys those for me. It&#8217;s realistic bc they happened in real life&#8230;but I can&#8217;t say they&#8217;re not cheesy. It&#8217;s a collection of shorts, though, and it helps.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Interpreting the Declaration of Independence Please help? by Psi_Kick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Psi_Kick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 05:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.  This first sentence (yes, it's all one sentence) asserts the ability of people to be politically independent as part of a Natural Law.  It then specifies that the reasons for such independence must be reasonable, explainable and explained.

(2. 3. &#38; 4. combined are known as The Preamble to the Constitution.)

2. This refers to  the ideas and ideals that were principles of the Declaration.  It also declares what is known as the 'right of revolution' - people have certain rights and if the Government violates these rights, the people have the additional right to 'alter or abolish ' that Government.

3.  This defines people as creatures of habit and hesitant to put effort into asserting change even when they aren't comfortable with the way things are.  It speaks of the need for a balance somewhere between wanting change when it isn't really needed  and reluctance to initiate change even when a situation clearly calls for it.

4. This defines the conditions under which the decline of the current Government can no longer be tolerated and the responsibility of the people to take action to end the abuses and correct the course for future security.

5. This is a list of charges against King George which attempt to show that he has violated the rights of colonists and is no longer suitable to lead.  It's intended to be an example of unacceptable Government and the need to take action as described in the Preamble.

I hope this helps you a bit.   Best of luck!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.  This first sentence (yes, it&#8217;s all one sentence) asserts the ability of people to be politically independent as part of a Natural Law.  It then specifies that the reasons for such independence must be reasonable, explainable and explained.</p>
<p>(2. 3. &amp; 4. combined are known as The Preamble to the Constitution.)</p>
<p>2. This refers to  the ideas and ideals that were principles of the Declaration.  It also declares what is known as the &#8216;right of revolution&#8217; - people have certain rights and if the Government violates these rights, the people have the additional right to &#8216;alter or abolish &#8216; that Government.</p>
<p>3.  This defines people as creatures of habit and hesitant to put effort into asserting change even when they aren&#8217;t comfortable with the way things are.  It speaks of the need for a balance somewhere between wanting change when it isn&#8217;t really needed  and reluctance to initiate change even when a situation clearly calls for it.</p>
<p>4. This defines the conditions under which the decline of the current Government can no longer be tolerated and the responsibility of the people to take action to end the abuses and correct the course for future security.</p>
<p>5. This is a list of charges against King George which attempt to show that he has violated the rights of colonists and is no longer suitable to lead.  It&#8217;s intended to be an example of unacceptable Government and the need to take action as described in the Preamble.</p>
<p>I hope this helps you a bit.   Best of luck!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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