Self Confidence Help? Please?
I really like this guy, and school starts in a few weeks. We’re in different grades, so i won’t see him as much.
I haven’t seen him all summer, and i want to pluck up enough courage to text him and ask him to go on a walk with me, or just come to my house or something. I have a low self-confidence, or a low- self esteem and I really want to see him, but i can’t find the courage to do so..can someone help me? :/
pretend you are not with him when you are with him and just be someone you are normally like you are with your dear ones or close friends and build up your relationship from there. 1st let him be your good friend and then start thinking about dating. achieving this will be your lesson number one in gaining confidence and moving on from there.
dont think about it too much and just do it.
the more you will think the less you will do..
so go go go…
☑ see, hear, read the world & explore
yourse!f ••
✌ good day ⊕ good luck ••
★ "keep walking" ••
pretend you are not with him when you are with him and just be someone you are normally like you are with your dear ones or close friends and build up your relationship from there. 1st let him be your good friend and then start thinking about dating. achieving this will be your lesson number one in gaining confidence and moving on from there.
dont think about it too much and just do it.
the more you will think the less you will do..
so go go go…
☑ see, hear, read the world & explore
yourse!f ••
✌ good day ⊕ good luck ••
★ "keep walking" ••
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LIFE.
I respectfully disagree with ₥āžęĐΛ¥ℤ, I think they mean well but I don’t like the advice. If you like someone then you need to make them feel special. If you want them to like you back then you have to give them signs, hang out with them often, look them in the eye, be close to them, touch frequently, flirt… Relationships don’t happen because you’re giving someone less attention, that will just lead them into believing that you’re not interest. The self-confidence is just something that you’re going to have to stomach through. If you don’t go for it, then you’re going to end up the same way you would have if you went for it and it didn’t work out. You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Remember, It’s okay to be afraid… but it’s never okay to let fear keep you from doing what you need to do.
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I know how you feel. I really like this girl but I have troubles asking them out because my biggest fear is them saying no. I think that just asking them to hang out sorta as friends sometime is the best way to go, but make the date more romantic than he’d think. That is, if you and he weren’t already going out before now. Like tell him that you’d walk with him around the block or in a park and listen to music, but finish the walking a little early and rent a sorta romantic movie like the last song or some other romantic comedy. And by listening to music, put some slower songs in a playlist on your ipod, computer, phone, or mp3 player and repeat the playlist over and over again. That’s how i would do it but i’m having trouble finding which girl i need to choose. There are 2 in mind. Please check out mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtLIyq2EGYZUhdcXRTxBrArsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100809081542AAyey6G
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